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Sweet Valentine










SWEATER: RALPH LAUREN (SIMILAR) + SKIRT: CHICWISH + HEELS: OLD NAVY (SIMILAR) + 
CLUTCH: ZARA + EARRINGS: F21 (SIMILAR) + RING: BANANA REPUBLIC + 
BRACELETS: J. CREW & C. WONDER


Ah romance is in the air. Or maybe that's just snow and freezing rain, am I right NYC?? Jokes. I have them. Valentine's gets a bad rap from a lot of folks, but I am such a sucker for the holiday. Valentines/Galentines, what's not to love about a pink frilly holiday where you eat candy and celebrate the people you love? Hallmark, I'm on board. 

This year, I took a break from my usual all-black-everything-new-yorker outfits to pair up a few of my most feminine pieces. To keep it updated, I mixed one pastel with one bright color (light pink and cherry red is much more sophisticated than hot pink and red). The soft cashmere sweater and mid-length full skirt give a sweet, classic vibe, and by keeping my accessories all red on bottom and pink on top, the look has a modern color blocking effect.


And in case you're still feeling grumpy about Valentine's Day, I leave you with this gem of positivity:






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DIY HOLIDAY DINNER PARTY

(aka better late than never, right?)








 Ho Ho Ho Merrrrrrry Christmahannukwanzica! Yes, I know I'm a tad late on getting this out there in the internet world. Every year I hold two big dinner parties and invite all my New York friends- one in the spring, and one in the winter between Thanksgiving and Christmas. And while the holiday season has come and gone, there are a few tips I always stick to when hosting a large (budget friendly) dinner party for any occasion.

WHERE TO SPEND YOUR MONEY

(1) SPEND ON FOOD, NOT BOOZE. Reason: potluck dinners are pretty common in your twenties, but it's rare to be served a fully curated menu. It makes for a much more special occasion, rather than a stressful one with friends guessing what to bring. This also ensures all the dishes in your meal complement each other, since you have control of the menu, and you won’t end up with six servings of store-bought cookies and pasta salad.

(2) DON’T BUY ALCOHOL. Reason: ask your guests to bring a bottle of their favorite wine or beer. Friends will want to contribute to the party and this is an easy way to ensure everyone has a drink they’ll love. Bonus, this also is a subtle teaching moment about bringing a hostess gift to a party, hopefully a lesson your friends will carry with them.

(3) DON’T BUY EVERYDAY ITEMS YOU COULD BORROW. Reason: well, that’s dumb. Borrow folding tables, extra chairs, votive candles, serving dishes, even plates and cutlery if you need to. You don’t normally set a table for 16, so don’t feel like you need to invest in tons of extra everyday items. Your friends and neighbors surely have some staples you could borrow. Just be sure to plan ahead so you aren’t trying to run errands on the day of the party.

(4) DO BUY CLOTH NAPKINS AND CHARGERS. Reason: while apartment 5B definitely has some extra wine glasses you could borrow, they probably don’t have linen napkins and metallic chargers in a matching color scheme. I own 16 gold chargers (I purchased my first set of 12 at Target for $2 each, and picked up four more at Michael’s when they were on sale for $0.69!) and a mix of plain white cloth napkins (aka the cheapest you can buy) and gold chevron napkins (bought on sale at C. Wonder). Even when my chairs are mismatched or the china isn’t all from the same set, the table looks pulled together and polished because of the uniformity from the gold chargers and fancier napkins. Going with gold or silver means that you can use these items year round, another money saver.

(5) DON’T BUY CENTERPIECES. Reason: it’s way too easy to make. Unless you find a killer deal on flowers, forgo them for greenery that’s in season and CANDLES. Candles are the key to great ambiance. Borrow as many votives as you can and scatter them in random groupings down the center of your table. I also used bunches of holly (free: picked from my neighbor’s bush) and pine boughs (tipped the christmas tree salesman on my block $5 and got a whole bushel of leftover branches) as accents on my table and mantel.

(6) MAKE NAPKINS RINGS & PLACE CARDS. I always make my place settings out of something natural to decorate my table. This year I used the pine boughs I already had on hand and oversized gift tags that I hand-lettered with guests' names and tied together with twine.






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I'll Have A Blue Christmas





"And when those blue snowflakes start falling
That's when those blue memories start calling
You'll be doin' all right with your Christmas of white
But I'll have a blue, blue, blue Christmas"





COAT: J. CREW (last season) + TURTLENECK: J. CREW + PANTS: RAG & BONE + 
BOOTS: STEVE MADDEN (SIMILAR) + BAG: MICHAEL KORS + GLOVES: OLD NAVY + 
SUNGLASSES: ASOS (SIMILAR) + EARRINGS: BLOOMINGDALES


Still waiting on those snowflakes here in NYC, but it's blue all the time here with the hottest (pun?) colors this winter - cobalt, navy and gray. I absolutely adore this statement wool coat from J. Crew - it's worth investing in more coats than just your below-freezing-marshmallow-man-standard-black-puffer-coat. Your outfit may be exquisitely styled, but no one's going to see it beneath your coat and scarf when it's this cold out. Make sure you love your outerwear just as much.

Also loving the mirrored sunglasses trend that's coming back... 
pretty sure my dad used to wear almost these exact glasses in 1991.



















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Pride

Sunday was the NYC Pride Parade and Manhattan became a magical rainbow-filled land of happiness (unless you were trying to cross 5th Avenue anywhere in the city- best of luck with that). In addition to what I wore, I thought I'd share some snapshots from the day:
Above: a very excited (and sweaty) flower-power child, the Dykes on Bikes motorcycle gang, and the world's greatest feather headdress.

Clockwise from top: the best Delta flight attendant you've never had, some excited-looking pleebs, the world's cutest boys and girls scouts promoting equality for the Boy Scouts of America, and ABS. 
There were so many abs kids.

 Also above- half the freaking cast of Orange Is The New Black, which makes sense since Laverne Cox was the grand marshal of the parade this year. But that doesn't explain why Poussey was real excitedly pointing at us... no big deal.


TANK: J. CREW + SHORTS: AMERICAN APPAREL + BAG: DOUNEY&BOURKE  VINTAGE THRIFT + SANDALS: AMERICAN EAGLE (old) + MUSTACHE NECKLACE: URBAN OUTFITTERS (sold out, SIMILAR)

NAIL POLISHES: ESSIE (Pastels) + URBAN OUTFITTERS (Bolds) + AMERICAN APPAREL (Neons) 

For the parade, I decided to go with an all white ensemble to show off some rainbow accents! (Proof you don't need to own rainbow clothing to dress thematically). This outfit was easily put together by painting my nails in all my favorite shades (I mixed it up with pastels on one hand and brights on the other) and painting rainbow war paint using acrylic paint I already had in my bottomless craft drawer. Face painting tip: if you squirt little dabs of paint on the back of your hand, like I usually do when painting my face, try this tip- rub a bit of lip balm over the back of your hand before squirting your little paint blobs on it, then when you scoop the paint up with your brush, it will get mixed with the balm just a little bit and won't dry out as much or crack on your face. This also coats your hand so wiping the excess paint off is a breeze. 


 ☮♡&ladybugs,
Ashley

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Shower Season



Ah, tis the season of showers (yes, rain... but we're talking bridal showers today)
The summer wedding season is almost upon us, so if your nearest and dearest are getting hitched this year you're probably starting to make the bridal shower rounds. I went back to the great state of MD this weekend to attend one myself, and thought I'd share some of my bridal shower fashion do's with all of you:


Attractive "windblown" shot

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A bridal shower is all about celebrating your lady friend, so this isn't the time to wear that edgy show-stopper you've been wanting to show off. It's her day. Since this is usually a chance for the girls to get together sans-significant others, pick something feminine! I chose an extra girly fit-and-flare dress in hot pink and added a few pale lilac accents with my jewelry and nails. This is what I would call the grown up version of pink + purple... it takes me back to simpler, barbie loving days.


  
BRACELET: J Crew (available in store) + LARGE RING: C Wonder + SMALL RING: Madewell (part of set) + EARRINGS: Benevolent Jewels "Frozen Blossom" + NAIL POLISH: Essie "Go Ginza"

Benevolent Jewels is also having a 30% off sale for Mother's Day with the code LOVEMOM, 
so go go go before it's over!


DRESS: Topshop "Crepe Flippy Dress" (avail. in citrus color - sold out in pink) 
also love this lilac dress + SHOES: Michael Kors "Damita" Wedges + 
PURSE: Michael Kors "Selma" Bag


I'll try not to harp on about how much I love these uber comfortable wedges in yet another post, but let's just say I was REAL glad I wore them when I was easily carrying my serving platters up the hill to the house and looked behind me to see another guest ever so painfully hiking it up the 45 degree hill (not an exaggeration) carrying 5 large gift boxes (also not an exaggeration- why so many gifts girl?) while wearing 4 inch pumps. She, naturally, went barefoot for the rest of the party.

Last tip: every once in a while, kick off those shoes and play in the grass! It's FINALLY spring kiddies.



☮♡&ladybugs,
Ashley

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Easter Brunch Recap

 I have a large family scattered across the east coast, and it's always impossible to get everyone together on actual Easter Sunday, so every year we celebrate "Feaster" or Fake-Easter, aka whatever weekend in April all our aunts and uncles and cousins can fly in. This is actually quite nice because it allows me to host my own Easter Sunday Brunch for friends in the NYC area. 

Here is the recap of this year's get together, from table settings to tips, DIYs and recipes from my meal.




The first thing I do on the day of and event is set my table. Even if your food is still cooking when your guests arrive, the scene will be set and guests will feel comfortable to mingle because you will (at least appear) to have everything finalized and under control!

I wasn't able to find the flowers I wanted for my table this year so I went with a sunny, fresh design that didn't require any! I kept my place settings simple and clean, white plates and coffee cups and clear mimosa glasses. I added color with gold chargers ($2.50 each at Target and I use them ALL THE TIME), yellow lemon place cards and gold chevron print napkins from C Wonder. (I love THESE too for spring!)

If you don't have a full set of matching plateware, cups, etc, have no fear! The key to mismatched place settings is to make it purposeful! If you are setting a table for six, don't have 5 matching places and one odd man out - alternate each plate and cup to create a pattern so you have 3 and 3 that match. Or even make each place setting decidedly different so that your table has an eclectic feel. I like to finish an eclectic look by choosing an interesting coffee or teacup for each place that suits the person who will be sitting there. It shows that you put thought into each of your guests, even if they don't all have matching plates:)


MIMOSA + BLOODY MARY BAR

This is one of my favorite brunch/dinner party tips, that I posted about extensively earlier this week. Creating a make-your own drink station on a table or countertop for guests to utilize when they first arrive is (a) fun and colorful and (b) solves the age old problem of "too many cooks in the kitchen" aka guests crowding around asking what they can do to help you while you're trying to put the finishing touches on your meal. Now you can tell them to help you (and themselves) by making a delicious drink!

Click here to read the Mimosa Bar DIY.



Here's the table once the meal was dished. So colorful! For the brunch I served a quiche lorraine as my protein/main dish and a red flannel hash as my starch (keep scrolling to find recipes below). For my greens I served a spring salad made with mixed greens, a can of mandarin oranges (drained), blueberries, chopped apple, pecans and crumbled blue cheese with a raspberry vinaigrette. Salads with fruits and veggies are great both for spring and for brunches when people are craving something lighter and fruity.


And the piece de resistance... angel food cake for dessert! 

I won't dain to include a recipe here because I used a box mix for this cake. All you have to do is add water to the mix!! It's too easy not to do this when you're preoccupied with cooking all the other parts of the meal. It still tastes 100% better than if you bought one in store and no one will know (or care) that it's not homemade once you add your own homemade topping. Just do yourself a favor and buy yourself the $10 angel food cake pan at Target. It's necessary. This type of cake won't bake right in a regular cake pan. And it's so good you'll want to make it again this summer. (Angel food cake is also supposedly a fat-free dessert. Sugar free? No. But fat-free? Ok. Oh hello there swimsuit season, terrifying to see you.)

I popped this cake in the oven while I was working on my main dishes on the stove, then let it cool while we ate our meal. For the topping I sliced a whole lotta strawberries and then threw in the blueberries and raspberries that were left over from my cocktail station. HERE IS THE KEY: my mother taught me this as a child and it's one of the best and easiest tips for fruit topped desserts. Slice your strawberries into a bowl and then sprinkle a bit of white sugar over them. Mix up with a spoon and then let sit. The sugar will draw the juice out of the strawberries and make it into the world easiest juicy fruit topping. Without this step, your grocery store bought strawberries look a little sad and dry atop a delicious cake.


EASY PEASY LEMON SQUEEZY (DECORATIONS)

To brighten up the party, I purchased a few bags of multicolored easter candies, namely jelly beans and m&m's. I dumped them out into a medium sized bowl and then spent a few minutes separating the candies into smaller bowls based on color. I then filled a few glass containers (some small vases and mason jars) with layers of each color of candy and set them about the space. Colorful + delicious.

I have to say my favorite decoration were these easy + cheap lemon place cards for each table setting. 
Click here to read my Lemon Place Card DIY.



KICK ASS QUICHE RECIPE

For my holiday meal, I decided to go with a more traditional Quiche Lorraine, but the beauty of quiches is that you can fill them with ANYTHING your heart desires. I'm excited to try asparagus in my next one...

Tips on Quiches The way I remember the foolproof quiche formula is two parts egg to one part milk, i.e. 3 eggs to 1 1/2 cup milk. This will give you just enough eggs to set the milk, but your quiche will still be silky and custardy. If you prefer a bit more substantial quiche, go with 4 eggs. As for the milk vs. cream debate, original quiche recipes call for all cream, but most current recipes now call for 1 cup milk and 1/2 cup cream. I generally just go with 1 1/2 cups half&half - one less thing to buy at the grocery, and then I use the remainder of the carton to serve with coffee.


WHAT YOU'LL NEED

pie crust
3-4 eggs
1 1/2 cup cream or milk
1 medium onion
1 bag spinach
3-4 strips bacon
1 - 1 1/2 cups swiss cheese

1. My first step was to pre-bake my frozen pie crust. Preheat the oven to 350F. Line the frozen crust with aluminum foil or parchment paper so it completely covers all the edges. Then fill 2/3 of the way with dry beans to weigh it down to prevent bubbles. (Don't fill more than that. If your weights are too heavy, the crust will stick to the foil.) Bake 20 mins. Remove from oven and remove the pie weights by lifting the foil up by the edges. Using a fork, poke little holes all around the base of the pie crust then pop back in the oven for 10 more minutes (it will be lightly browned all over).

2. While your crust is baking, prepare all your fillings- wash and dry your spinach, chop your onion, defrost your bacon and shred your cheese. 

3. Pre-cook each of the fillings that will go in your quiche. Reusing the same pan I just fried the bacon, sautéed the spinach and browned the onion.

4. Next, fill your baked crust with your fillings. I spread about 1/3 of my cheese evenly on the bottom, then sprinkled half my spinach, then half my onion and half my bacon over that. I then repeated another layer of the remaining halves of spinach, onion and bacon. Top with remaining cheese. Set aside.

5. Using a large bowl, whisk your eggs. Add your milk or cream (I also added salt, pepper and nutmeg here to season) and whisk vigorously so your quiche will be fluffy. Pour into pie pan, stopping just before you reach the top - believe me, throwing away a little extra egg mixture is better than attempting to transport an overfilled quiche into your oven without catastrophe).

6. Bake quiche at 350F for 30-40 minutes. The quiche will be done when only the center still wiggles a bit. Let cool so the filling will set, or become firm. You can eat at room temperature, or reheat the next day in the oven at 200F. I prefer to make my quiches the night before. The consistency is always better the second day.

Tip: Wrap the edges of the quiche lightly with foil before baking (it doesn't have to look pretty), then remove the foil about 15 minutes before the quiche is done. This will ensure a perfectly browned, but not overdone, crust.



RED FLANNEL HASH RECIPE

A potato dish is a must for me for big brunches, but considering that quiche is not the most colorful dish, I wanted to add something more colorful to my plate other than white potatoes. This red flannel hash gives a great pop of purple/red against the yellow quiche and green spring salad.


WHAT YOU'LL NEED

one large leek 
(you can use an onion instead)
3 red potatoes
3-4 large beets, or about 10 small beets 
(thoroughly scrubbed)
3 cloves garlic, minced
a good pinch of oregano, thyme & rosemary if you have them
goat cheese for topping (optional)

1. Roughly chop leek, potatoes and beets. Heat a tablespoon of olive oil in a pan over medium heat and saute your leek until it begins to soften. Then add your garlic and spices, with a generous pinch of salt and pepper.
2. Add in your potatoes and beets. Cover the pan and cook until tender, about 20-25 minutes, stirring occasionally to prevent the bottom from burning. Try one of the potato chunks to test when it is soft and done, and to determine if you need more spices.
3. Sprinkle with goat cheese and a dash of herbs if desired. Serve warm.

☮♡&ladybugs,
Ashley





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