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DIY HOLIDAY DINNER PARTY

(aka better late than never, right?)








 Ho Ho Ho Merrrrrrry Christmahannukwanzica! Yes, I know I'm a tad late on getting this out there in the internet world. Every year I hold two big dinner parties and invite all my New York friends- one in the spring, and one in the winter between Thanksgiving and Christmas. And while the holiday season has come and gone, there are a few tips I always stick to when hosting a large (budget friendly) dinner party for any occasion.

WHERE TO SPEND YOUR MONEY

(1) SPEND ON FOOD, NOT BOOZE. Reason: potluck dinners are pretty common in your twenties, but it's rare to be served a fully curated menu. It makes for a much more special occasion, rather than a stressful one with friends guessing what to bring. This also ensures all the dishes in your meal complement each other, since you have control of the menu, and you won’t end up with six servings of store-bought cookies and pasta salad.

(2) DON’T BUY ALCOHOL. Reason: ask your guests to bring a bottle of their favorite wine or beer. Friends will want to contribute to the party and this is an easy way to ensure everyone has a drink they’ll love. Bonus, this also is a subtle teaching moment about bringing a hostess gift to a party, hopefully a lesson your friends will carry with them.

(3) DON’T BUY EVERYDAY ITEMS YOU COULD BORROW. Reason: well, that’s dumb. Borrow folding tables, extra chairs, votive candles, serving dishes, even plates and cutlery if you need to. You don’t normally set a table for 16, so don’t feel like you need to invest in tons of extra everyday items. Your friends and neighbors surely have some staples you could borrow. Just be sure to plan ahead so you aren’t trying to run errands on the day of the party.

(4) DO BUY CLOTH NAPKINS AND CHARGERS. Reason: while apartment 5B definitely has some extra wine glasses you could borrow, they probably don’t have linen napkins and metallic chargers in a matching color scheme. I own 16 gold chargers (I purchased my first set of 12 at Target for $2 each, and picked up four more at Michael’s when they were on sale for $0.69!) and a mix of plain white cloth napkins (aka the cheapest you can buy) and gold chevron napkins (bought on sale at C. Wonder). Even when my chairs are mismatched or the china isn’t all from the same set, the table looks pulled together and polished because of the uniformity from the gold chargers and fancier napkins. Going with gold or silver means that you can use these items year round, another money saver.

(5) DON’T BUY CENTERPIECES. Reason: it’s way too easy to make. Unless you find a killer deal on flowers, forgo them for greenery that’s in season and CANDLES. Candles are the key to great ambiance. Borrow as many votives as you can and scatter them in random groupings down the center of your table. I also used bunches of holly (free: picked from my neighbor’s bush) and pine boughs (tipped the christmas tree salesman on my block $5 and got a whole bushel of leftover branches) as accents on my table and mantel.

(6) MAKE NAPKINS RINGS & PLACE CARDS. I always make my place settings out of something natural to decorate my table. This year I used the pine boughs I already had on hand and oversized gift tags that I hand-lettered with guests' names and tied together with twine.






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DIY Kate Spade Folders + Home Office Update


In an effort to declutter my desk space at home, I recently built a handy little shelf to (a) cover my ugly old radiator and (b) store my paperwork and craft supplies somewhere away from the top of my desk. It was looking pretty bland so I DIYed my own Kate Spade striped folders (cost = zero dollars!.. because I had all the materials already on hand) to replace my dingy mismatched manilla ones.


The difference isn't that dramatic, but the space definitely looks more pulled together because it all fits in my white, gold and pink theme... rather than looking like the rainbowed craft room of a child. Keep reading for the easy how-to!


WHAT YOU'LL NEED:
white file folders
metallic gold washi tape (I used scotch expressions)
scissors or xacto knife


(1) Start on one side of the folder and place a strip of washi tape flush against the vertical edge. 


 (2) To make sure your stripes are evenly spaced, cut a small excess piece of tape and place it next to your first stripe, with the edges touching. Then adhere your next stripe touching the other side of your tiny tape spacer. 
*I only put a spacer near the top of each strip and then eyeballed the spacing at the bottom. The beauty of washi tape is that it can be pulled up and placed again if you're not happy with your line, but if straight lines are not your forté, just put a second set of little tape spacers at the bottom of your stripes as well as the top, and your stripes will be perfect!

(3) Repeat steps 1 and 2 until the whole folder is covered.



(4) Flip the folder over and carefully trim the excess tape from your edges. I experimented with both scissors and my xacto knife for this, and they work about equally- the xacto knife was a little easier to use around the curved corners and label area of the folder, while the scissor was easier to get a perfectly straight, close cut on the straight edges. Use whatever you prefer, but if you're using an xacto, be sure to put something underneath you to protect your work surface! (cardboard works just fine)


(5) Remove your tape spacers and discard. Or if you're going to make more than one folder, stick them to the edge of your desk or work surface and then re-use them when putting together the other folders (it will make your washi tape last longer if you waste as little as possible on the spacers!)

My bizzare bedroom lighting makes metallic tape look kind of crazy in photos...


I always have jars and jars of pens, pencils and markers floating around my workspace. I can never seem to cut down on the amount of writing utensils I own. And while it screams Look! I'm artistic! It definitely doesn't contribute to the simplistic clutter-free aesthetic I'm always striving for. Easy solution? Stop displaying your pens out in the open like the artwork they're not and hide them away in a pen-sized drawer!

For the record, this classic wooden ikea bad boy is next on my DIY to-do list. Planning a cool graphic paint job for the drawers... stay tuned.


Another easy update? Swap your 20 year old collection of random paper clips, binder clips, safety pins, what have you, and just pay a couple bucks for some all-gold supplies. I recently spent three whole dollars on a box of assorted gold binder clips (link HERE) and a whopping $1.74 on cute gold paper clips (link HERE). Money well spent considering it gives you the gold desk supply look that's uber trendy right now, but costs you a whole lot less than say, this $30 gold Kate Spade stapler (swoon).





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It's time to play...





I thought we'd do something different today and take a peek into what I've been toting around to all my weekend adventures in the city lately. (Read as: sitting for hours in coffee shops or walking aimlessly around Central Park) Here's my must-haves in my fall weekend bag:

1. BAG // Vintage Leather Backpack. Sooo excited that backpacks are trendy again. My aching right shoulder that's carried giant tote bags for the past 24 years is pretty thankful too. I got this leather beauty for $22 at my favorite thrift store, Beacon's Closet. Win. Having a million pockets for me to fill? Double win. I'd suggest thrifting your own, but if you're willing to take the plunge to buy new, Urban Outfitters has a cool Frye one right now.

2. TECH // I generally leave my laptop at home during the week, but I love working on the blog from different locales (read: again, coffee shops) on the weekend. My old apple case was getting pretty ratty, and I was so excited to get my new UChic case recently! Cute pattern? Check. Fave accent color? Cheeeck. Good cause? Check. UChic is a brand new company that's helping to fund $1000 scholarships for deserving young women through these awesome back-to-school accessories. You guys know I'm all about buying from new fashion brands that give back, but this seriously raises the bar. This case is called the "Gracie" and was designed by Gracie Schram, a 16-year-old singer/songwriter and a recipient of the scholarship. Cool, right? You can buy it here on their indiegogo page: igg.me/at/uchic. I've talked a lot with some lovely ladies at this company recently, and besides having an awesome cause, let me tell you, customer service is not dead! Support them.

3. SUNNIES // Michael Kors, can I ever leave the house without you? Answer: No. No I cannot. Protect your peepers ladies.

4. A GOOD READ // Have you read #GIRLBOSS? I'm only halfway through and damn, I'm inspired. Sophia Amoruso is (a) a little crazy (which I like) and (b) shares some pretty awesome experience/advice for those of us trying to forge our own way in the fashion world. But even if you're not, it's definitely a feel-good, now-I-want-to-go-accomplish-something-today read.

5. WARMTH // It's transition time! Thankfully, it's still been warm enough in NYC to go without a coat, but a lightweight blanket scarf is my absolute must-have in early fall. Lightweight so that you won't feel bogged down if you've got it wrapped around your neck, but big enough that you can open it and drape it around your shoulders if the wind really picks up. The one pictured is a Furla scarf that was a gift from Momma G, but Nordstrom has a similar one too. How does Nordstrom always have everything?

6. MOISTURE // I am obsessed with Smith's Rosebud Salve. I use it as a lip gloss all year round, but it's especially great now that the air (and my skin) is drying out. Apply it to your lips with your finger (there's the slightest hint of peachy-pink) and then wipe the excess on the back of your hand to moisturize your scary knuckles yo. Two-for-one.

7. CRAFTS // I cannot stop crafting, and my latest craft venture is opening my own custom stationary Etsy shop later this month! As if I didn't spend enough time in the Soho Paper Source store already, I'm now constantly carting around envelopes and stamps and color samples and bothering all their employees as I test out my ideas. Their blush pink envelopes & flat cards are hands-down the prettiest color I've ever seen. My blush pink phase might be getting out of control this season. But hey, if you want some pretty pink stationary, you've come to the right girl.

8. GLAM // I do my nails on the go in inappropriate places all the time. So there's usually 1-5 bottles of nail polish in my bag on any given day. My latest buy was this cool gray (called 'Earl Grey' - aren't you clever Sally Hanson) that's feels perfect for fall.

What's in your wallet weekend bag?
(bad mastercard joke)


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DIY: Easy Room Pick-Me-Up

Ok, this one's not the most exciting DIY project in the universe, but it is SO easy and it makes your room look much more put together. Like, a "why yes the curated gallery wall complements the drapes so nicely" bedroom vs. a "yeah most of this is my furniture that survived my college dorm" bedroom.

I myself recently moved into a new bedroom in my crazy brownstone of a house. So naturally, I immediately painted it pink and started buying furniture on craigslist to refinish. But while I had all my electrical outlets removed for the wall-painting-extravaganza anyway, it felt like the perfect time to spruce them up.

EXHIBIT A:
Dingy plastic outlet cover in weird off white/tan color. Paint crusted outlets.

Random assortment of white and tan outlets around the room. 
If your landlord is as old and crochety as mine is, you probably also have this issue. Or if you're not OCD about decorating, maybe you just don't consider this an issue. To each their own.

WHAT YOU NEED
Screwdriver
Glossy white spray paint
(go for the 2-in-1 paint and primer, you'll never regret it and never have to prime again!)
Newspaper
Paper Plate

WHAT YOU DO
Use the screwdriver to unscrew all your outlet covers and light switch covers from the wall. Wipe them down to remove any dirt or dust, otherwise your paint won't stick as well. Lay some newspaper down outside (or in a well-ventilated area, duh) and place your outlets face up on top of it. Spray a thin coat of white paint over the top, being sure to get the edges as well, and let sit for 30 mins. Spray a second coat and wait for an hour to dry completely (or however long is recommended on the spray paint bottle).


To paint the screws from the outlet covers, especially important if yours were a weird dirty tan color like mine, or just to make sure they match the color you've now painted your outlet covers, punch them partway through the back of a paper plate and lay that down on your newpaper before spraying with the two-coat method. This will keep them upright and prevent them from rolling away never to be found again.


Take the opportunity to wipe down your uncovered outlets. They're probably pretty grimy and you probably won't ever bother to do this otherwise. Then screw your outlet covers back on once dried and voila! 
Easy peasy update.

If you're looking for a flashier update to your outlets covers, paint them a funky neon color, modge podge some decorative paper or fabric onto them or cover them with washi tape designs. Check out other cool ideas on Pinterest HERE. I might pick one cool idea to jazz up my light switch cover...

I've got a big DIY weekend ahead so lookout for more fun (and more colorful and exciting, I promise) posts to come soon!



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Tassel Banner DIY


 WHAT YOU'LL NEED:
multiple colors of tissue paper
(I just used what I had in my gift wrap stash, but try to throw one metallic paper in there to spice it up)
scissors
ruler
pencil
string
hot glue (optional)

STEP ONE: Fold one sheet of tissue paper in half. Orient the sheet so your fold is at the top and use your ruler to draw a light line 2 inches down from the fold.

STEP TWO: Cut vertical strips between the bottom of the paper and the line you drew (do not cut above the line). I eyeballed my strips at about 3/4 inch each. Make them across the entire sheet

STEP THREE: Unfold your tissue paper and gently grip the non-cut-into-strips portion in the center. Slowly roll up the entire sheet, using your fingers to comb out the strips so they don't get tangled along the way.

 STEP FOUR: Once the sheet is rolled, twist the center section tightly and keep twisting until it starts to curl over itself in the center.

 STEP FIVE: Pinch that center section and twist three times to create a secure loop. You could even stick your pencil through the loop and then twist to get extra tight twists and a standard loop size. (Close up below)

(OPTIONAL) You can place a small dot of hot glue at the base of your twist to hold it in place. I made mine tight enough that it wasn't necessary.

Repeat for as many tassels as you'd like to make then thread onto your length of string. I like using thicker string (or twine here) because you can adjust the spacing of the tassels once you hang it up and they will stick in place wherever you situate them along the line!

This banner was a great touch hanging over my DIY mimosa bar... read how to make your own HERE.


 ☮♡&ladybugs,
Ashley

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Easter Brunch Recap

 I have a large family scattered across the east coast, and it's always impossible to get everyone together on actual Easter Sunday, so every year we celebrate "Feaster" or Fake-Easter, aka whatever weekend in April all our aunts and uncles and cousins can fly in. This is actually quite nice because it allows me to host my own Easter Sunday Brunch for friends in the NYC area. 

Here is the recap of this year's get together, from table settings to tips, DIYs and recipes from my meal.




The first thing I do on the day of and event is set my table. Even if your food is still cooking when your guests arrive, the scene will be set and guests will feel comfortable to mingle because you will (at least appear) to have everything finalized and under control!

I wasn't able to find the flowers I wanted for my table this year so I went with a sunny, fresh design that didn't require any! I kept my place settings simple and clean, white plates and coffee cups and clear mimosa glasses. I added color with gold chargers ($2.50 each at Target and I use them ALL THE TIME), yellow lemon place cards and gold chevron print napkins from C Wonder. (I love THESE too for spring!)

If you don't have a full set of matching plateware, cups, etc, have no fear! The key to mismatched place settings is to make it purposeful! If you are setting a table for six, don't have 5 matching places and one odd man out - alternate each plate and cup to create a pattern so you have 3 and 3 that match. Or even make each place setting decidedly different so that your table has an eclectic feel. I like to finish an eclectic look by choosing an interesting coffee or teacup for each place that suits the person who will be sitting there. It shows that you put thought into each of your guests, even if they don't all have matching plates:)


MIMOSA + BLOODY MARY BAR

This is one of my favorite brunch/dinner party tips, that I posted about extensively earlier this week. Creating a make-your own drink station on a table or countertop for guests to utilize when they first arrive is (a) fun and colorful and (b) solves the age old problem of "too many cooks in the kitchen" aka guests crowding around asking what they can do to help you while you're trying to put the finishing touches on your meal. Now you can tell them to help you (and themselves) by making a delicious drink!

Click here to read the Mimosa Bar DIY.



Here's the table once the meal was dished. So colorful! For the brunch I served a quiche lorraine as my protein/main dish and a red flannel hash as my starch (keep scrolling to find recipes below). For my greens I served a spring salad made with mixed greens, a can of mandarin oranges (drained), blueberries, chopped apple, pecans and crumbled blue cheese with a raspberry vinaigrette. Salads with fruits and veggies are great both for spring and for brunches when people are craving something lighter and fruity.


And the piece de resistance... angel food cake for dessert! 

I won't dain to include a recipe here because I used a box mix for this cake. All you have to do is add water to the mix!! It's too easy not to do this when you're preoccupied with cooking all the other parts of the meal. It still tastes 100% better than if you bought one in store and no one will know (or care) that it's not homemade once you add your own homemade topping. Just do yourself a favor and buy yourself the $10 angel food cake pan at Target. It's necessary. This type of cake won't bake right in a regular cake pan. And it's so good you'll want to make it again this summer. (Angel food cake is also supposedly a fat-free dessert. Sugar free? No. But fat-free? Ok. Oh hello there swimsuit season, terrifying to see you.)

I popped this cake in the oven while I was working on my main dishes on the stove, then let it cool while we ate our meal. For the topping I sliced a whole lotta strawberries and then threw in the blueberries and raspberries that were left over from my cocktail station. HERE IS THE KEY: my mother taught me this as a child and it's one of the best and easiest tips for fruit topped desserts. Slice your strawberries into a bowl and then sprinkle a bit of white sugar over them. Mix up with a spoon and then let sit. The sugar will draw the juice out of the strawberries and make it into the world easiest juicy fruit topping. Without this step, your grocery store bought strawberries look a little sad and dry atop a delicious cake.


EASY PEASY LEMON SQUEEZY (DECORATIONS)

To brighten up the party, I purchased a few bags of multicolored easter candies, namely jelly beans and m&m's. I dumped them out into a medium sized bowl and then spent a few minutes separating the candies into smaller bowls based on color. I then filled a few glass containers (some small vases and mason jars) with layers of each color of candy and set them about the space. Colorful + delicious.

I have to say my favorite decoration were these easy + cheap lemon place cards for each table setting. 
Click here to read my Lemon Place Card DIY.



KICK ASS QUICHE RECIPE

For my holiday meal, I decided to go with a more traditional Quiche Lorraine, but the beauty of quiches is that you can fill them with ANYTHING your heart desires. I'm excited to try asparagus in my next one...

Tips on Quiches The way I remember the foolproof quiche formula is two parts egg to one part milk, i.e. 3 eggs to 1 1/2 cup milk. This will give you just enough eggs to set the milk, but your quiche will still be silky and custardy. If you prefer a bit more substantial quiche, go with 4 eggs. As for the milk vs. cream debate, original quiche recipes call for all cream, but most current recipes now call for 1 cup milk and 1/2 cup cream. I generally just go with 1 1/2 cups half&half - one less thing to buy at the grocery, and then I use the remainder of the carton to serve with coffee.


WHAT YOU'LL NEED

pie crust
3-4 eggs
1 1/2 cup cream or milk
1 medium onion
1 bag spinach
3-4 strips bacon
1 - 1 1/2 cups swiss cheese

1. My first step was to pre-bake my frozen pie crust. Preheat the oven to 350F. Line the frozen crust with aluminum foil or parchment paper so it completely covers all the edges. Then fill 2/3 of the way with dry beans to weigh it down to prevent bubbles. (Don't fill more than that. If your weights are too heavy, the crust will stick to the foil.) Bake 20 mins. Remove from oven and remove the pie weights by lifting the foil up by the edges. Using a fork, poke little holes all around the base of the pie crust then pop back in the oven for 10 more minutes (it will be lightly browned all over).

2. While your crust is baking, prepare all your fillings- wash and dry your spinach, chop your onion, defrost your bacon and shred your cheese. 

3. Pre-cook each of the fillings that will go in your quiche. Reusing the same pan I just fried the bacon, sautéed the spinach and browned the onion.

4. Next, fill your baked crust with your fillings. I spread about 1/3 of my cheese evenly on the bottom, then sprinkled half my spinach, then half my onion and half my bacon over that. I then repeated another layer of the remaining halves of spinach, onion and bacon. Top with remaining cheese. Set aside.

5. Using a large bowl, whisk your eggs. Add your milk or cream (I also added salt, pepper and nutmeg here to season) and whisk vigorously so your quiche will be fluffy. Pour into pie pan, stopping just before you reach the top - believe me, throwing away a little extra egg mixture is better than attempting to transport an overfilled quiche into your oven without catastrophe).

6. Bake quiche at 350F for 30-40 minutes. The quiche will be done when only the center still wiggles a bit. Let cool so the filling will set, or become firm. You can eat at room temperature, or reheat the next day in the oven at 200F. I prefer to make my quiches the night before. The consistency is always better the second day.

Tip: Wrap the edges of the quiche lightly with foil before baking (it doesn't have to look pretty), then remove the foil about 15 minutes before the quiche is done. This will ensure a perfectly browned, but not overdone, crust.



RED FLANNEL HASH RECIPE

A potato dish is a must for me for big brunches, but considering that quiche is not the most colorful dish, I wanted to add something more colorful to my plate other than white potatoes. This red flannel hash gives a great pop of purple/red against the yellow quiche and green spring salad.


WHAT YOU'LL NEED

one large leek 
(you can use an onion instead)
3 red potatoes
3-4 large beets, or about 10 small beets 
(thoroughly scrubbed)
3 cloves garlic, minced
a good pinch of oregano, thyme & rosemary if you have them
goat cheese for topping (optional)

1. Roughly chop leek, potatoes and beets. Heat a tablespoon of olive oil in a pan over medium heat and saute your leek until it begins to soften. Then add your garlic and spices, with a generous pinch of salt and pepper.
2. Add in your potatoes and beets. Cover the pan and cook until tender, about 20-25 minutes, stirring occasionally to prevent the bottom from burning. Try one of the potato chunks to test when it is soft and done, and to determine if you need more spices.
3. Sprinkle with goat cheese and a dash of herbs if desired. Serve warm.

☮♡&ladybugs,
Ashley





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